Wednesday, April 3, 20131:49 AM

■ Silence is girls' loudest cry

When I keep silent, it doesn't mean I'm ok. It doesn't mean what you said doesn't hurt. So if you have nothing nice to say, STFU.





& a very random thought. I used to think in a relationship, unlike poles attract. For example, a quiet guy attracts a vocal girl. A shy girl attracts an outgoing guy.

But it suddenly strike me that it's not the case. For a person who is quiet is probably used to being quiet, i.e. me. If someone who is very noisy comes into my life........................ I'd be so frustrated that I'd want to rip him apart.

Balance is the key. In this balance, one must complement the other. Like how cheese complement fries (cheese fries, super yumz!), beer complement fried chicken (not that I like beer). Someone quiet requires someone not that noisy, but vocal enough to keep conversations going. A shy person requires someone who is a tad more outgoing to open her up a little more.

I felt smart when I thought of this, but then........who is there I can share it too? It's probably me being slow once again, so people probably knew this long ago when I only realised it now. Everyone's gonna just ignore me because I'm like "stating the obvious".

Maybe I should just start a "Feel Smart" diary and talk to myself. At least I feel smarter without people putting me down.